Daily Productive Sharing 978 - Overcome Fears
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How can one overcome inner fears? Mark Manson offers six methods, all based on the principle that human thoughts are interconnected:
- Exposure Therapy - Gradually expose yourself to a little bit of fear, then slowly increase the intensity.
- Related Exposure - Engage in activities related to your fear. For example, if you fear flying, try paragliding to build a connection with the original fear and gain confidence.
- High Altitude Training - Similar to high altitude training in sports, if you fear something, try something even scarier first, then return to the original fear, and it will seem less daunting.
- Make It Fun - Turn what you fear into something enjoyable, letting joy dissolve the fear.
- Build Identity Cognition - We often associate with our identities, so by creating a new identity related to the fear, we can diminish the fear.
- Do It with Friends - This approach can be more reliable and increase the likelihood of overcoming the fear.
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如何克服心中的恐惧?Mark Manson 给出了六个方法,这些都给予同一个道理,即人的思维是相关联的:
- 暴露疗法 -- 将自己暴露在一点点恐惧中,然后慢慢增大恐惧;
- 相关暴露 -- 将自己暴露在与恐惧相关的活动中,比如害怕飞行,可以尝试滑翔伞,从而与原先的恐惧建立联系,并建立信心;
- 高海拔训练 -- 与体育中的高海拔训练一样,如果我们害怕某件事物,可以直接尝试比这件事更可怕的事,然后回到这件事上,我们就不再害怕了;
- 把它变得有趣 -- 把我们害怕的事变成一件有趣的事,让快乐溶解恐惧;
- 建立身份认知 -- 我们习惯和自己的身份绑定在一起,所以当我们针对恐惧建立一个新的身份认知,我们可以以此来消解恐惧;
- 与朋友一起 -- 这样可以变得更靠谱,更加有可能克服恐惧。
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